If you’re a narcissist, you’re probably familiar with your self-proclaimed “victim” being the only one who cares about them and never even bothers to see them.
And if you’re not, well, it’s okay.
You’ve been taught this by all your parents, your therapists, and your entire society.
You’re the only person who cares.
Narcissists love to make their victims feel like they’ve been treated well and give them false hope that they can achieve their dreams.
You know what?
You can do that too.
But you’ve probably never been taught to love yourself enough to love your life in all its glory, even if it’s just for a day or two.
And it’s not as simple as just getting a job or getting your car fixed.
For narcissists, the only way to feel good about yourself is to let yourself be loved, but this doesn’t mean you can just forget about yourself.
Instead, you must be willing to be loved in all it’s glory.
Here are a few tips to make loving yourself more rewarding: Learn how to be a self-actualizer You’ve learned how to make yourself feel good and satisfied and safe and loved and wanted.
You may have felt like you needed a little help in the beginning with your job or with your family.
But as you’ve gotten older and your life has improved, you’ve learned to love those things.
You want to feel more comfortable in your own skin and have more control over your life.
You don’t need to do everything yourself.
You can find out from others how to do things yourself.
Learn to be an empathetic and empatastic person You’ve also learned how important it is to understand and accept others and how to love and be loved by people who share the same values.
The world is a harsh place, but if you want to be happy and feel loved, you need to embrace it.
You must be open and willing to listen, but you need not be afraid to say, “No.”
You’re not entitled to be treated well or to be respected.
If you want your love and happiness to last, you have to be willing and able to give it to someone.
Learn how love and compassion work You’ve heard a lot of things about narcissists over the years, but it’s important to know that it’s actually not that simple.
Narcisists are not inherently cruel.
They love others unconditionally and will give you the benefit of the doubt in a way that most people wouldn’t.
However, they can be hard to love if you can’t be open about your problems and let them go.
Learn about compassion and acceptance When it comes to accepting yourself, narcissists often talk about “just loving yourself,” but the reality is that you must always be open to being loved.
It’s not about giving in to your self.
It is about making it your goal to let go of all that hurts you and accept the love you’ve always felt for yourself.
If there’s one thing that’s true about narcissism, it is that narcissists have a very hard time understanding how others feel and how they are feeling.
So they try to convince themselves that they have the answer and they don’t.
That’s the reason they are so self-centered.
They need you to think that they are the reason you’re hurting.
But what they don and don’t know is that they’ve just been taught how to feel better about themselves and that it isn’t enough to just be happy with yourself.
They are taught that their love and love for themselves is more important than their own happiness.
So when they feel the need to tell themselves they’re the cause of their problems, they think that means they’re really good at being sad.
This is the most insidious type of narcissism.
This type of self-loathing can lead to self-hatred and feelings of inferiority.
They may even believe that their pain stems from other people and that they should feel bad.
You cannot fix your self if you do not allow yourself to be seen as a problem, not a person.
Learn more about love and acceptance from Dr. Patricia Hill, a psychologist, author, and lecturer at the University of Chicago, and Dr. Carol Moseley, a clinical psychologist and the author of How to Love Yourself.
Learn More about narcissist tests The Narcissistic Personality Inventory (NPI) is a test that can be used to determine the traits and characteristics of narcissists.
It can be taken online or in a physical format.
The test can be scored online by completing the personality tests, which include the Narcissist Inventory and the Narcisseptical Personality Inventory.
For more information on how to take the NPI, read How to Take the Narcisist Personality Inventory, and learn how to identify and treat narcissists by reading this guide.
To see the scores of the other personality tests and the scores for the narcissists themselves, go to the Narcissa.org website.